How true - as in other good advice, we need to be reminded from time to time.
I may not always be Christian in my comments, but I'm trying, and though a
senior citizen, I think I'm still learning.Here's one practical
idea to add to the excellent list above: use the old English writing curriculum
advice: revise, revise, revise. I like to copy-paste back and forth from the
comments box to MS Word, and look for exactness in my expressions and
vocabulary. That's a good practical application for the suggestions above,
particularly the first one.We are altogether too much in a hurry nowadays,
and press "enter/return" without pondering our message. A little
reflection will help us to put the dampers on, not only for pride, but also for
impetuous remarks that may be hurtful.When I get feedback on my comments,
I assure those that do so that I value them and try for
self-improvement—even if the feedback is perceived as negative and/or
somewhat hurtful. I believe most people are well-intentioned and assume that
commenters' motivation to post is that they wish to do some good for the
cause of mankind.
A code of conduct !. Watch what you say.2. Don't take what
anyone else said to heart or personally. 3. Never assume any thing. 4. Always do your best.
Thanks. We seriously need this to happen on this website.
We need to do what Elder Holland has said: "Defend your beliefs with
courtesy and with compassion, but defend them."
@ ElizaAldous - Utah County, UT - "We need to do what Elder Holland has
said: "Defend your beliefs with courtesy and with compassion, but defend
them.""AMEN to that!
Difficult to follow advice (especially in the midst of constant hostility and
attacks from others) but good nevertheless.
I'm so glad to see this list as I really need it! I have a hot temper and
too often I have been guilty of firing off a scathing post without really
stopping to think before I hit "send". I think I should print this list
and stick it to my monitor so I can see it before I ever post anything!