Holding a gun to your wife's head probably isn't the best way to win
her heart. I know it certainly wouldn't work in my house. This woman
should make the best use of her time while he is in jail by selling everything
he owns on eBay.Serving him with a restraining order is also a lot
easier when he is locked up.
Definitely not a great way to influence his wife to stay with him, to convince
her of his "love" for her! Sheesh!! She should also move if she can,
because a restraining order is just a piece of paper, and while it would get him
arrested if he violated it, she could also be dead. Sounds like he needs some
major counseling of some kind. Best of luck to both of you. I know how difficult
it can be to get out of a marriage with someone who does not want you to go. I
had to run away in the middle of the night, many years ago, and get help from
the police to get my children out of the house.