Sad. Thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
I know the Bentley family, my thoughts and prayers are with them as well as with
Sister Love. I am sure she is going through just as much pain as the Bentley
family are, may the Lord be with all who are hurting at this time.
May the Lord bless and keep her family. This good sister has gone to a new field
of labor - hopefully teaching my family.
Heart breaking for both the family of Sister Bentley and for Sister Love. May
the Lord bless them all.
Many would feel guilty about driving the car that turned left and had an
accident. My concern is that this feeling of "guilt" might become
excessive. I wasn't there. Nor am I the Mission President or anyone else in
church authority but I hope that they will be able to spiritually listen and to
speak to the driver much better than I in the 135 words remaining.
what a heart-rending story. She was called home long before her time to serve
the Lord in other realms. May that same Lord be with her family and loved ones,
and give them that peace which is beyond human understanding. My sincere
sympathy goes out to them.
Every missionary mom's nightmare! My heart breaks for this family and her
Sorry, May the lord be with them all
Having been in a similar experience, the Lord will be very close to all
Vanessa is my sister-in-law, my wife her older sister. This has been
devastating for all of our families. We did not know pain like this existed.
But we take some comfort knowing Vanessa did not suffer, and that she was doing
what she thought was right in serving a mission, and died firm in her
convictions. We love her so much and her memory will survive for generations.
She was an amazing girl.For those that knew her a facebook group has
been set up in her memory. Search for VanessaBentleyForever as this site won't
allow me to post the actual URL.
Bret S. So sorry, what a terrible loss. I hope in time you and your family can
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers will be with you that you will have
peace to be with you.
My deepest condolences to all the sister missionaries' families and loved ones.
May our gracious Heavenly Father wrap you in the arms of His great love, and
whisper peace to your souls.
Please accept my most sincere condolences. . . We have had four of our seven
children serve missions and know how loved they are by the Lord for their
devotion and spiritual influence. I know Sister Bentley is now surrounded by
loved ones and that her "mantle" of authority to preach the Gospel and
serve will continue among those in the Spirit World who long for salvation. I
pray you will receive the Lord's confirmation that your daughter is loved and
now protected in an environment of total love. My best wishes also go to Sister
Love, and I pray for her speedy recovery and that she will feel the comforting
love of our Savior.
She was needed in another place to continue her teachings of the Savior..
As I read this I felt sad that she wasn't able to complete her mission, yet she
really will and do it with Heavenly Father. It's always sad when a tragic
incident like this takes an innocent life. All I can think of is...that Heavenly
Father must have really had a need for her there. May the Lord's peace and
calmness be with her friends and family during this difficult time.
BretS. - I was struck by something from your post . . . "we did not know
pain like this existed." What a profound statement. As a parent who has
lost a child, it is the most heart-wrenching emotional pain imaginable. My
heart hurts for your family right now.May God be with you and your
loved ones during this most difficult time.
My the Lord be with those involved in the accident and with this sister's
family. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
I didn't know her well, but interacted with her every so often while working at
the BYU basketball and football games. She had an infectious smile and always
seemed to be happy. She will be greatly missed by more than just family and
friends. My prayers are with the Bentley family.
Cars are unnatural.My condolences to the family.
Vanessa is a hero. What a tragic loss to all of us that she's gone. My heart and
prayers go out to her family and to her ailing mission friends.
"It may not be on the mountain's height, or over the stormy sea.It
may not be at the battle's front, My Lord will have need of me....But, if,
by a stiil small voice, he calls, to paths that I do not know,I'll answer,
Dear Lord, With my hand in thine, I'll go where you want me to go."I am so grateful for these wonderful Missionaries that answer the call.
I am a convert, and was so blessed by the two that taught me. I then had the
chance to serve, as did members of my family. God Bless you Sister Bentley,
Sister Love, and your dear families. God Bless also the lady in the other car.
To the Bentley Family, having suffered the loss of loved ones, I
testify that there truly is "a balm in Gilead."
Until we lost our sixteen-year-old son in an automobile accident, we thought the
term "heart-ache" was simply metaphor. Afterward, we discovered that
it is literal, if not understated. Oh, what pain!We will pray that
the Bentley's and all who have cause to mourn will have the constant
companionship of the Comforter.
This sister served in the mission that covers my ward. I am sorry to hear about
this. One thing to remember is that for her family, this is not
"goodbye," but "see you in less than an hour."
Our prayers are with her family. May the Lord bless everyone involved. She must
have been a really choice spirit. I hope she teaches the gospel to my family
that havent had the opportunity to hear it in this life.
My daughter's best friend. Absolutely a wonderful girl from a wonderful family.
My daughter just returned from her mission and was waiting for Vanessa. As BretS
mentioned, her hurt was just overwhelming. The next morning in scripture study
we happen to be at Alma40 which speaks of the resurrection. We could barely
finish it through the tears. But I'm so happy to have been able to know Vanessa
and have her often in our home. No matter how bad a circumstance was, Vanessa
brightened the situation.
My son served in the same mission and had the privilege of meeting Sis. Bentley
as she entered the field in NY. She made a great impression in that first month
of her mission while he was there. Having a sense of how Pres. Bulloch felt
about his missionaries I can imagine the anguish he feels. My thoughts and
prayers are with Sis. Bentley's family and friends, and also with Pres. and Sis.
Bulloch and the missionaries in the Utica Mission.
What a sad story but the good upcome is that she is with our Heavenly Father and
is doing his work on the other side of the veil. To the family: You will see
her again and it will be ajoiceing time. My condolence go out to you and that
our Heavenly Father will bless you and your family until you see her again.
My heart goes out to this family and friends, I hope that the spirit will
comfort them and that they will find peace knowing that this young woman is
doing a great work and is happy. I have no doubt that she would want her family
to be happy. I have not lost a child to physical death, but I have lost one to
spiritual death and I know so well the heart ache of going through that and with
time the teachings of the spirit. I had to find the positives to dwell on, so
that my heart would not hurt every day.
How very sad. My missionary comes home today. This story makes me so
grateful for the service these young faithful people give. Even more grateful
that my son will be home in a few hours. It's little solace to the grieving
family, but they can be assured their daughter was doing what she should have
been doing, and that's really what any parent hopes for.
I read a very profound thought the other day and I think it really applies here.
"If you do what you know in your heart is right, everything else will work
out okay." She was doing what she knew was right and everything really
will be okay. I pray the pain will fully heal and her loved ones will be able
to rejoice at the thought of their glorious reunion.
I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face, I am so sad for everyone's
loss. I have a missionary currently serving and it breaks my heart whenever I
hear anything like this. I pray that her family, and her companion, and others
who are hurting right now will be comforted. I also pray for faith for us all
to believe that Heavenly Father is aware of each of us, even though we don't
understand why things happen. My prayers and sympathy go out to all her friends
Many of us here in the Potsdam, NY District feel blessed by the service of
Sister Bentley and grieve her loss. The Lord sends us the very best
missionaries up here and we love all of them dearly - to lose one of them like
this is devastating. Our prayers are with her family and companion at this
My love and condolences to Sister Bentley's family, her friends, and her dear
companion who is surely living a gut-wrenching nightmare. An extra measure of
compassion must be poured out upon Sister Love, who certainly never intended for
this to happen when she made that left turn. Sister Bentley died in the service
of her fellow-man and God. No greater love has anyone than this. Good work
Sister Bentley, time for a new calling.
God be with you till we meet again.
My thoughts and prayer to Sister Bentley's family. I will miss her!
So tragic! My pryers go out to this sister's family. But, if she was the
missionary everyone says she was, I know she is in a better situation right now
then any of us. So, the main grieving is really for her family and friends.
God bless them in this time of trial.
The Bentley family is special, this I know having grown up with them in the
Millcreek 12th Ward. They are GOOD PEOPLE and I pray the arms of the Lord will
enfold them that they may feel his love in this trying time. The Lord Bless You
and Keep You.
To the family and friends of this devoted young woman, I express my heartfelt
sorrow for your loss.
I am a missionary mom and the mother of five. I have felt so bad about the
passing of Sister Bentley and the pain Sister Love is also going through. I
offer my heartfelt condolences to Sister Bentley's family and friends. I hope
you will feel the love of our Savior and the prayers that are being offered in
your behalf :) We will continue to pray for you and Sister Love and her family
Accidents happen and you can't predict or prevent them. Very sad for the family
and very difficult to send your precious daughter off to serve and then have
this happen. Can't imagine the pain the family is going through.
Vanessa was our daughter Kasse's roomate and a good friend to our son at BYU.
It was clear that she was a very special woman of faith. We loved having
Vanessa in our home and words do not do justice to the loss and pain that her
family and Sister Love are experiencing. My heart and prayers go out to her
family, Sister Love and our children. They lost lost a friend, sister, daughter
and companion. Kasse is serving a mission in Arizona and I know she is grieving
as well as praying for Vanessa and her family. I am thankful to my Father in
Heaven and the Lord Jesus Christ for the sustaining Spirit for all that are
grieving at this time. May God Bless and Keep You! With respect and love,
Having lost my oldest niece when she was just barely 18, in a car accident, I
know a little bit about the overwhelming waves of grief, despair, and heartache
that will envelop the family members and friends of Sister Bentley and Sister
Love. About all that one can do is to hold on tight to the promises
of God, our Heavenly Father. Sometimes the grief and pain will seem beyond what
you can bear but, from my own experience, I know that if we will call and wait
upon the Lord that He will answer. I pray our Heavenly Father's
blessings upon all of you, dear ones. I am a convert to the Church. I know that
I would not have the blessings of the Restored Gospel without the full-time
missionaries and their families who have sent them to the mission field. My prayers and thoughts will be with all of you.
"We just have to assume that Heavenly Father was in charge of this last
transfer."My heart and prayers go out to this family and those
Sister missionaries who worked along side this sister. Regarding the last line
(quote above) of this article.... I believe He was in charge and I got chills
and tears in my eyes when I read it.
Condolences!!! Always sad to see a young life taken, but we know she's doing the
Lord's work on the other side!!
What a tragedy. My heart goes out to all involved.
I am a missionary serving in the Arkansas Little Rock mission. I am currently
serving in Olive Branch Mississippi. Vanessa is my double cousin. I was the last
one to see her in my family when we were in the MTC together for 2 weeks! I
really treasure those last times I had with her, even though I didn't know they
would be the last in this mortal life. I am blessed to have been there with her
and to share that great experience as missionaries. I saw how concerned she was
for the people we were teaching in the MTC and how she wanted to come up with
the best lesson plan for her investigator and I was amazed at her time and
energy she put into everything she did in the MTC. She was truly a great example
to me! I have so many great memories of her and me growing up together, I will
always remember her wonderful laugh, and how we would laugh for hours together
and stay up for hours just talking to each other. I will miss her so much, but
because of the atonement of Jesus I know I will see her again.
I love Vanessa so much and I know she is a very choice spirit! She has always
been a great example of Obedience to me. She was always positive and always made
my day! I Cant imagine how my Aunt and Uncle and my cousin's are handling this,
but I know the spirit has given me so much peace and comfort and I hope he is
doing the same for them, They are always in my prayers.
Thank you Vanessa and Natalie for your love, mission, and help. I send your
families love and know God will comfort you.